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I See Good People (and you can too)
Posted in Personal Growth, Relationships | Also tagged acceptance, beliefs, Emotional Intelligence, fear, judgment, optimism, parenting, personal development, Personal Growth, personality development, pressure, projection, relationships, self improvement, stress, tolerance | Leave a comment
Projection
Picture yourself sitting in an old cinema all by yourself, watching a movie. Turn your head towards the back wall and see there a big window. Behind the window, there is a projection machine. In that machine, a long, wide film is running, a film you have created.
A strong light travels through the film towards the screen. You can see the beam of light getting wider as it travels through the air, showing flickers of colors and movement inside it. Follow the beam of light with your eyes as it keeps on going and getting wider, until you are facing forward and looking at a huge screen, which practically fills your entire fields of vision.
As you look, you become absorbed in the movie, finding yourself emotionally attached to some of the characters, fearing some of the others, hating a few and getting carried away with the story.
Real life is very much the same. We become absorbed in our own story, which we project onto the world. When we interact with other people, we each look at our own "film" and can get into all kinds of trouble.
Posted in Personal Growth, Relationships | Also tagged acceptance, beliefs, communication, Emotional Intelligence, personal development, Personal Growth, personality development, relationships, self improvement, values | Leave a comment
Hitting Rock Bottom to Succeed
She paced back and forth and stormed, "I never see myself not having money for food or sleeping in my car because I have no home to sleep in. I never see myself without a family to support me. All I got from these presenters was that I must get very low if I want to be successful, which means I'll never be successful. What kind of motivation technique is this?"
Posted in Personal Growth | Also tagged Emotional Intelligence, inspiration, motivation, personal development, personality development, self improvement, success | Leave a comment
I’m proud of me
"Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves; vanity, to what we would have others think of us" - Jane Austen
Posted in Personal Growth | Also tagged beliefs, choice, Emotional Intelligence, motivation, Personal Growth, personality development, self confidence, self esteem, self improvement, self worth | 1 Comment
Life Formula
This week, I was asked by one of my clients about the formula for a successful, healthy and happy life, but as much as I wanted to give him the formula, I could not.
Posted in Personal Growth | Also tagged acceptance, choice, happiness, how to, lifestyle, personal development, Personal Growth, success | Leave a comment
Criticism No More
Change for Happiness
You may have noticed this about yourself or the people around you, but being happy can be a bit of a challenge. Sure, there are moments of joy and elation, but they do not seem to last very long and then we go back into, well, "normal" life.
Why is this? Better yet, once we know why this is, how can we benefit from this knowledge to become happier?
Posted in Personal Growth | Also tagged change, happiness, happy, how to, lifestyle, perception, personal development, Personal Growth, personality development, pressure, self confidence, self esteem, self improvement, self worth, stress | Leave a comment
Lessons Learned
The word "lesson" makes most people see themselves sitting in a class with a teacher talking at the front. Many times, it brings up extra homework and fear about being tested on subjects learned. What a shame, because life is a long lesson, with lots of work (at home and outside of home) and daily tests!
Posted in Learning, Personal Growth | Also tagged Emotional Intelligence, failure, inspiration, Learning, parenting, personal development, Personal Growth, personality development, self improvement, success | Leave a comment
How to Conquer Fear – Watch Your Buts
If you look at the word "conquer", you will realize that the presence of fear is an indication of war between what you think you should do and what you think you should not. In the past, fear was the guard posted in our mind to protect us, but now it has taken over. Sometimes, we must conquer our fear just to be able to move.
Posted in Personal Growth | Also tagged Behavior, Emotional Intelligence, fear, how to, personal development, Personal Growth, self improvement | 3 Comments



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