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Category Archives: Personal Growth
Posts about integrating ourselves as “holistic” human beings and putting all our learnings together to become the person we want to be.
I See Good People (and you can too)
Also posted in Relationships | Tagged acceptance, beliefs, Emotional Intelligence, fear, focus, judgment, optimism, parenting, personal development, Personal Growth, personality development, pressure, projection, relationships, self improvement, stress, tolerance | Leave a comment
Feelings are Things
Posted in Personal Growth | Tagged Emotional Intelligence, fear, happiness, how to, neurolinguistic programming, nlp, personal development, Personal Growth, self improvement, success | Leave a comment
Projection
Picture yourself sitting in an old cinema all by yourself, watching a movie. Turn your head towards the back wall and see there a big window. Behind the window, there is a projection machine. In that machine, a long, wide film is running, a film you have created.
A strong light travels through the film towards the screen. You can see the beam of light getting wider as it travels through the air, showing flickers of colors and movement inside it. Follow the beam of light with your eyes as it keeps on going and getting wider, until you are facing forward and looking at a huge screen, which practically fills your entire fields of vision.
As you look, you become absorbed in the movie, finding yourself emotionally attached to some of the characters, fearing some of the others, hating a few and getting carried away with the story.
Real life is very much the same. We become absorbed in our own story, which we project onto the world. When we interact with other people, we each look at our own "film" and can get into all kinds of trouble.
Also posted in Relationships | Tagged acceptance, beliefs, communication, Emotional Intelligence, focus, personal development, Personal Growth, personality development, relationships, self improvement, values | Leave a comment
Hitting Rock Bottom to Succeed
She paced back and forth and stormed, "I never see myself not having money for food or sleeping in my car because I have no home to sleep in. I never see myself without a family to support me. All I got from these presenters was that I must get very low if I want to be successful, which means I'll never be successful. What kind of motivation technique is this?"
Posted in Personal Growth | Tagged Emotional Intelligence, focus, inspiration, motivation, personal development, personality development, self improvement, success | Leave a comment
Reversing the Trend
You know, lots of people follow trends. So much so that trendy gadgets, fashion, language and behavior are no longer questioned by many. They are simply followed, as if they were some force of nature. This video blew my mind when I saw it. It demonstrates in a symbolic way what each and every one [...]
Also posted in Global Village | Tagged beliefs, change, choice, empowerment, global community, Personal Growth, priorities | 1 Comment
I’m proud of me
"Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves; vanity, to what we would have others think of us" - Jane Austen
Posted in Personal Growth | Tagged beliefs, choice, Emotional Intelligence, focus, motivation, Personal Growth, personality development, self confidence, self esteem, self improvement, self worth | 1 Comment
Life Formula
This week, I was asked by one of my clients about the formula for a successful, healthy and happy life, but as much as I wanted to give him the formula, I could not.
Posted in Personal Growth | Tagged acceptance, choice, focus, happiness, how to, lifestyle, personal development, Personal Growth, success | Leave a comment
Hidden Agenda
The world is full of different people, with whom we have relationships of varying closeness and intimacy. More often than not, we find ourselves in conversation with someone wanting to say something, but saying something completely different, because saying what we think would produce the wrong results. This even happens with our partner sometimes, not to mention the kids.
Also posted in Relationships | Tagged Behavior, beliefs, communication, fear, personal development, Personal Growth, relationships | Leave a comment
Criticism No More
Absolutely everybody receives some criticism in life. Some of us have the misfortune of growing up with critical parents, while others bump into their first critic at school, but we all have to face criticism at some point, right?
Also posted in Relationships | Tagged acceptance, Behavior, beliefs, communication, Emotional Intelligence, focus, how to, interpretation, perception, personal development, Personal Growth, personality development, relationships, self improvement | Leave a comment


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